Total Relationship Coach

Relationship Matters

create your happy beginning

With Erin Bentley, MA, you will find freedom from the painful, problem patterns of the past; evidence-based strategies for finding, creating, and keeping connection; and lasting transformation in the trust, closeness, and intimacy in your relationships. Stop waiting. Start creating YOUR happy beginning!

Relationship Matters

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TOTAL
RELATIONSHIP COACHING

Create The Closeness You Crave

Whether you are single or in a relationship, TOTAL Relationship Coaching will support you to move from conflict to connection, from loneliness to closeness – as you discover the rich, rewarding connection you deserve!

No more waiting, settling, wondering if the connection you yearn for will always be just out of reach.  

And no more struggling to figure it out on your own. 

TOTAL relationship coaching will help you:

  • escape the single cycle of searching for ‘the right person’ and discover how to create mesmerizing connections…with ease!
  • save your marriage by following simple steps…to uncover a foundation for love that lasts.
  • switch on the RIGHT strategies for creating relationship fulfillment – this is relationship by design, NOT by default!
  • Learn, finally, how to inspire a relationship where you grow together – instead of growing apart. 

 I will support you as you turn all your struggle and searching around – so you can have the closeness, the commitment, and the connection you deserve!

 Don’t wait even one more minute to get started with a complimentary, 45-minute Relationship Reboot Strategy Session! 

What We do

Private + Group Coaching

Single Is Not A Dirty Word

Being single doesn’t mean you have to figure it out alone.

I help single professional women identify the real SOURCE of their disconnection dilemma. If you’re lonely, confused, or heartbroken; if you are STUCK in the single cycle, desperate to know when or if you’ll find a love that lasts, don’t wait another minute. 

Couples

From Conflict to Connection

Stuck, stagnant, or just plain struggling, you can create the closeness you crave with simple steps for recovering trust and intimacy while you build your fundamental foundation for lasting love.

Events + Courses

Fast, Flexible, Fundamental!

Grounded in over 30 years of teaching experience; 15 years of private coaching; and more than 20 years of academic study into human relationships; Erin distills decades of research and coaching experience into high impact, transformational events and programs that support her clients.

Couples learn to create the CORE Connection of Peace, Passion, and Partnership in their relationships. 


Single professional women discover how to finally Breakthrough The Single Cycle with Erin’s six-week, online group coaching experience

Events + Courses

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Event / Courses

The BIG Love Blog

Content To B(l)oggle Your Mind!

Have you ever struggled with forgiveness? Do you know the secret to enduring passion in a long-term relationship? Are you suffering from “boundary bankruptcy”? 

Welcome to the BIG Love Blog! Here you will find actionable tips for some of the most common problems Erin’s clients overcome. One part principle, one part practical, you’ll gain valuable insight AND real-world strategies for overcoming the pain of your stickiest relationship struggles.

On the blog

Featured Posts

Stop The Press And Hold The Roses, Batman: There’s A Secret Ingredient To Lasting PASSION (hint: it’s not AA batteries)

One of the most common complaints I hear in my private relationship coaching practice goes something like this: “I just wish we could be close again. It used to be so easy” Or, “Erin, we’re just not having sex anymore!”  You might think I hear the first one from mostly women and the second from …

Part II – The #1 Thing Sabotaging Your Shot At The BIG Love (and how to turn it around for good!)

If you ever feel like you’re treated as though your needs don’t matter in relationship…you are in the right place, Dear One. If you sometimes experience a suspicion that while you’re taking care of everyone else, no one is thinking about your needs…tune in and turn on, Neighbour. If you sometimes run monologues in your …

The BIG Love Blog

Content To B(l)oggle Your Mind!

Have you ever struggled with forgiveness? Do you know the secret to enduring passion in a long-term relationship? Are you suffering from “boundary bankruptcy”? 

Welcome to the BIG Love Blog! Here you will find actionable tips for some of the most common problems Erin’s clients overcome. One part principle, one part practical, you’ll gain valuable insight AND real-world strategies for overcoming the pain of your stickiest relationship struggles.

Anne and Walter's Story

Erin is an incredibly intelligent, kind, genuine, down to earth, tell it like it is, bend over backwards for her clients kind of coach. If not for Erin, I do not know if my husband and I would be together today. When I met Erin I had truly lost hope that my husband and I would be able to reconcile. My husband had left, we already bounced between a couple of psychologists – which did not bring us the clarity or resolution we were looking for. I thought there was no hope for our marriage butI was determined to continue my quest to find someone who understood me, who understood my husband, and who could help us…whatever the outcome would be.
Within the first ten minutes of meeting with Erin over the phone, I felt relieved and hopeful. Finally, someone who heard me and got me, someone with incredible insight and knowledge about what we were going through, and someone who could help us find our way through.
One of the best decisions my husband and I ever made was investing our time, effort, and money into working on ourselves and our relationship with Erin. With compassion and kindness, she provided us with guidance and knowledge that helped us grow and work through our obstacles.
Her approach was effective. We learned so much about ourselves and each other. She taught us practical skills and exercises that changed our behaviour and perceptions. She woke us up, and helped us fight for the love, marriage and family we always wanted. Our work with Erin not only brought my husband and I closer than ever; it also helped propel our careers, finances and relationships with others.
Erin has been a blessing in our lives and we are so thankful we found her. It has been 4 years since that first phone call with Erin. We are still practicing the skills she taught us. We are stronger than ever and over the moon to be expecting our first child in a couple of months.

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