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Couples

Prioritize. Stabilize. Optimize.

Nothing is lonelier than feeling alone in your relationship. Too often, you get trapped by the desire to “get past” conflicts – only to end up in the same arguments again. 

You can’t get past it…until you learn how to identify what’s underneath it!

Stop wondering if conflict is all you have in common anymore. With Total Relationship Coaching, you’ll discover research-based strategies and a results-oriented approach that will show you how to get beyond the symptoms of your disconnection and find the SOURCE of the issue…so you get reconnected and STAY that way!

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Private Coaching

Private Couples Coaching

Prioritize. Stabilize. Optimize

For 15 years, Erin has been supporting couples grappling with every manner of  crises in their relationship, including infidelity, infertility, estrangement, substance use, and more. 

Research-based and results oriented, Erin delivers real value through her couples coaching package of 15, in-depth, 90 minute sessions that support couples to get underneath the symptoms of their struggles so they can identify and address the SOURCE of their disconnection dilemma – arresting the cycle of repeated arguments, distance, and distrust!

Equipped with an array of evidence-based, practical tools and strategies, Erin guides clients to adopt the optimal skills and awareness to recover closeness, trust, and intimacy in their relationships; while, at the same time, supplying the skills needed to protect your connection from future problems by promoting principles and practices designed to help you grow together…instead of growing apart!

Book a complimentary 30-minute Relationship Reboot Strategy Session to get started.

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ONLINE Group Coaching

Relationship (Re)Boot Camp!

Prioritize. Stabilize. Optimize

Join Erin for this LIVE, 6-week, group coaching experience for couples as you uplevel and uplift your connection! 

Each week, Erin will lead you through a discussion of some of the most tenacious  topics she’s coached her private clients through in 15 years of practice!

Weaving together the fastest and most impactful coaching techniques available…with the best, research-based strategies for couples, Erin will help you avoid “symptom seduction” as you learn, real-time, how to get underneath the complaints and conflicts keeping you from closeness and intimacy!

You will discover the key tools,  skills, and awareness you must have to identify your partner’s REAL needs (even when they aren’t aware of them) – so you can support them to feel S.A.F.E. to lean into love!

Discover how to derail conflict before it creates ruptures in your relationship!

Explore how your most tenacious patterns ‘track back’ to family of origin dynamics you CAN dissolve…so you pro-actively PREVENT fights and arguments – leaving you oh-so much more time for play, passion, and purpose!

And finally, create the conscious family culture your relationship needs….to realize and fulfill the ultimate promise of your connection by cultivating  the ultimate, VALUES centered relationship that empowers each of you to grow, evolve, and maximize your individual potential as people, partners, and parents!

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WEEKLY Workshops for Couples

Facebook LIVE Thursdays!

Fast, Flexible, Fundamental

Available exclusively to members of Erin’s Facebook group, “Total Relationship Coaching for COUPLES”, these WEEKLY, dynamic, and high impact Facebook live broadcasts support a thriving community of  couples committed to creating hot, happy, and healthy connections!

You have SO many questions:

  • How the HECK do we cope with the pressure-cooker of living, relating, or parenting…during Covid?
  • Why, no matter how much I compromise, give, or try…does this STILL feel so hard?
  • How do you turn conflict…into connection?
  • Is it possible to come back from a major crisis, breakdown, or rupture in our relationship?
  • How do we flip the fizzle…back to sizzle?

Whether you’re struggling, reconciling, newly committed, or just dedicated to being pro-active about your union, I’m here to share my answers to your questions (and even sometimes change the questions) as you refocus, together, on specific strategies that will MOVE THE NEEDLE to create connection where you grow together…instead of growing apart!

There are TWO main objectives for this group:

  1. To share HIGH impact insights and strategies, bring the laughter, and move you toward RESULTS – even faster than you thought possible, perhaps!

     

  2. To bring together, in community, a group of creative, curious, and courageous folx who prioritize:
  •  personal growth + development
  • cultivating conscious, committed connections
  • showing up authentically
  • joy, pleasure, consent, and accountability

So HOW, you might ask, are we going to do this? 

The mic drops HERE! 

First and foremost, join me for weekly FaceBook Live broadcasts on ALL the subjects that matter to you MOST!

I will answer your most *burning* questions as I distill 15 years of coaching insights into live broadcasts, Q&A’s, clients interviews, and discussions with allied professionals. 

You will LAUGH, LEARN, and leave LIGHTER as you discover how to:

PRIORITIZE meaningful, quality connection.

STABILIZE before crises develop.

And OPTIMIZE by leveraging struggles into strengths – and developing your fundamental foundation so you grow together…not apart!

Be sure to drop in on-the-regular so you can receive all the relationship tips, free resources, announcements, and SUPER special events. 

Don’t miss out on these free, live, weekly broadcasts. Request to join the group now!

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MONTHLY Masterclass for Couples

The Relationship Matters Masterclass for Couples:

Prioritize. Stabilize. Optimize.

You do NOT want to miss these free, epic events! 

Clients call these, 45-60 minute deep dives, “Relationship (Re)Boot Camps!

Once a month, Erin hosts a 45-60 minute masterclass in the Zoom Room on a specific topic such as:

  • EQ + You: How Avoiding Your Emotions Will Kill Your Connection
  • Learning To Listen With Love: Getting Underneath Complaints, Corrections, and Criticism
  • Moving Through Money Meltdowns
  • All In! Meeting Their Needs With Love Languages 

You name it! From supernatural sex to attachment styles, from why your communication problem isn’t the problem…to how compromise is killing your connection, Erin takes participants from painful patterns to the empowering principles and practices that will inform, inspire, and occasionally erupt the room with much-needed laughter as we tackle some weighty topics made easy by a world-class speaker and workshop leader!

Want the invite? 

Erin announces these monthly events through her NEWSLETTER! 

To join, email Erin at erin@erinbentley.com!

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What People are Saying

A few years ago, my husband and I were about to get divorce attorneys ... then we met Erin. After we “did our work” and learned from her about ourselves, the definition of trust, how to communicate effectively, each other’s love languages, and much more, we have a thriving marriage and two beautiful daughters. We thank Erin aloud constantly to each other because we are so thankful for what we have now!
A&E
We were a newly married couple struggling to communicate openly and effectively while challenged with a trans-Atlantic relationship and a 6-hour time difference. Anger and resentment were building, and we could not understand one another's perspective. Then Erin entered our lives. We started meeting with her as a couple and also separately. Erin was easy to talk to, listened carefully, and created a judgement-free environment where we could be honest with her, each other, and ourselves. She taught us about the six human needs relative to our current situation. She taught us how generational trauma and our childhoods heavily influenced how we were communicating and taught us how to change the narrative. She reminded us often that to build a strong family, we needed a strong foundation. Fast forward 5 years, and we are lucky to have a relationship where we understand each other's needs, can communicate openly and honestly, and have an amazing little toddler who we are raising to value kindness, cooperation, compassion, and understanding. We are so grateful for all Erin has taught us. She has truly helped us change our individual narratives and create a new narrative for our family, which will ultimately have a positive effect on generations to come.
Asher + Kylie
Working with Erin as our Relationship Coach has not only saved our marriage during tough times, it has taken it to the next level.We often ask 'How do couples make it without an Erin in their lives?' Her coaching goes beyond the psychology into practical, applicable, simple, and relevant actions that each partner can take to connect with and love each other more. It’s fascinating seeing her in her 'art' as she weaves in a multitude of methods that resonate with each of us, contextualizing concepts from Tony Robbins, integrating spiritual and energy work, and always taking the time to teach us the process so that we leave equipped with a variety of tools to apply to our daily lives. She has taught us the skills to understand and communicate with each other better as we navigate the ups and downs of family, work, and couple life together. We’ve worked with Erin for over 3 years, on-and-off through different phases of our relationship and in different capacities. Sometimes a few sessions per week when we needed more guidance, other times as check in along the way to keep our relationship flowing and evolving to new heights. She’s a constant source of support and truly deeply cares for every client that she works with. Her love and care for what she does is infused into each person that she guides and creates a powerful impact with anyone lucky enough to get to work with her.
Melanie and Justine
Erin Bentley came highly recommended to us through a friend. We always felt proud to say we were in marriage coaching as opposed to marriage counseling. On our first visit, we knew Erin was exactly what we needed.She told us that most married couples are operating at 60% (or less) of their potential, and she was going to get us to 100%! In her words, we were going to 'Cannon bolt out of her office after most of our sessions!' We sure did. Thank you, Erin - the growth we developed in our sessions both individually and in our relationship have carved us out to be better people, partners, and parents. Erin Bentley is a master of relationships, communication, conflict resolution, working with inner child trauma, and more- all while making your experience feel personal and unique. She has an intuitive style that is empowering, encouraging, and engaging.We would highly recommend anyone to use Erin if you are struggling in your marriage; or happy in your marriage and wanting to be even happier and more connected. Do yourself a favour and book a consultation with Erin to get to the next level.Your future self will thank you!
K&M
When I first heard Erin speak through the School of Human Design, I knew we needed to work with her. My husband Duncan and I have been together for 5 years and married for 2. We were actually in a really good place, but I was looking to take the more preventative route in terms of getting help.. I had been looking into therapy when Erin came into our lives and I knew it was meant to be. One thing she had spoken about was how people are so good at prioritizing and investing in themselves in so many ways, but when it comes to our relationships, we don't make the same effort. She also spoke about how important it is to have a strong foundation - both as individuals and as a couple. So after speaking with Duncan, we were both on board with investing in ourselves and building a really strong foundation together. I'm not even sure where to start as Erin had so much wisdom to share with us. I had so many 'aha' moments that brought a deeper connection to my husband and to myself as well. The first session was one-on-one with myself and Erin, which was so incredibly valuable. It allowed me to check in with myself and take note of the baggage I had brought into my relationship. This has been such a crucial part of making realizations as to what actually matters and what doesn't. Erin has helped us navigate conversations around boundaries, our childhood, dealing with things like home renos, conversation around potentially becoming parents, our sex lives, and so much more. And I have to say one of the most positive outcomes is that not only are our conversations with Erin extremely impactful, but it has ALSO given Duncan and I the tools to have hard conversations that we may have avoided in the past. I would HIGHLY recommend Erin to literally anyone who wants a long lasting and loving relationship.
Jaime and Duncan
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